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  Every youth worker should read this book!
If you can’t remember the last time you said “no” to the senior pastor, the custodian, the church secretary, or the parents of that annoying kid, you’re on the road to... well... to nowhere. Actually, you’re on the road to death – the death of your passion, your ministry, your joy, your family, your long-term ministry effectiveness, and maybe even your faith.
It may sound dramatic, but the truth is, ministry often makes us feel like we have to say “yes” to everything for the sake of Jesus. We’re asked to sacrifice our time, our energy, our personal resources, and often our families. And we usually make these sacrifices for others who believe they know what really matters for us. But if it’s all in the name of Jesus, do you think Jesus would really ask us to do it all?
Probably not, because Jesus said “no” on a regular basis. He said “no” to important people and significant opportunities. He took time to focus on what mattered most. He said “no” when He needed to refuel or refocus. In fact, Jesus was effective in His ministry because He regularly said “no.” Can you imagine what your ministry could be if you took the opportunities to refuel and refocus from time to time?
This is your chance. Doug Fields, author of What Matters Most and a youth ministry survivor for more than 25 years, is giving you permission – no, he’s telling you – to learn to say “no” and say it often so you can say “yes” to what’s most important. If you want to do more than just survive, if you want to thrive in youth ministry, this may be the most important lesson you’ll learn.
This book will provide you with encouragement to stay the course, reignite your passion for ministry, and most importantly, nurture your passion for Jesus. After all, isn’t that what matters most?
Overall user rating: 5/5 
| | Rating: | | Summary: Lots to chew on | | Reviewed by: Rob Cunningham (Antelope Christian Center/Antelope CA) | Review:
I just picked up this book at YS in Anaheim. Read through once already, great stuff to think about. Fields has some great insight here for everyone in ministry. |
| | Rating: | | Summary: Critical Read For Any Youth Worker | | Reviewed by: Kevin M (Columbia, SC) | Review:
Doug really takes time to share the value of doing what God has called us to do in this book. He helps the reader learn to evaluate and prioritize commitments to make sure the reader remains focused on what 'really matters most.'
It is an easy reading book (about1 1-2 hours, but well worth te time. |
| | Rating: | | Summary: A Must Read | | Reviewed by: Kevin M (Gilbert, SC) | Review:
IN this short book (about an hour read) DOug really pours out his heart to the youth worker about balance in their life. He not only shares with them how to evaluate their decisions but leaves them with the feeling that it is OK to say 'no'. This is a great companion to 'Your First Two Years In Ministry' and worht the read. |
| | Rating: | | Summary: Learning to Say No | | Reviewed by: RW (USA) | Review:
I'm a wreck, an accident waiting to happen, a prime example on how not to do ministry, a great or not so great life example on how not to live.
As I read your book, I felt like you have been on my youth ministry team for the last 5 years and finally you decided to say something. I'm sure I'm not the only one feeling that way I'm just glad there are guys like you out there that God has given wisdom to warn some of us guys who don't pay attention to the warning signs.
So thanks for all you do.
Still trying to figure it out ... learning to say no and taking my first Sabbath in, well, I can't remember. |
| | Rating: | | Summary: Great for ministy and for life! | | Reviewed by: Mike H (Punxsutawney, PA) | Review:
We all know the old cliche 'big things come in small packages.' This book is small, but has huge truths that are relevant for your life! And it's not just for people in ministry, this is a great book for anyone! What Matters Most offers advice and insight about making choices that will help you to being effective while avoiding 'burn out.' Highly recommended! (and it's a short read for those who are ADHD) |
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