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   authenticity in ministry jim burns
how can i be myself, funny, and at the same time counsel young people without hurting my friends, my youth, my walk with the lord, and the youth ministry, whom I work with?
It is important to be authentic - to be yourself - when working
with students. Students have an uncanny ability to see through someone
who
is putting on an act.
This being said, there are times when it is appropriate to be funny
and times when it is inappropriate. In the Bible, the book of Ecclesiastes,
Chapter 3, we find that Solomon wrote about there being appropriate
times
for everything... "A time to cry and a time to laugh. A time
to mourn and a time to dance..."
I'm sure that in addition to the naturally funny side of your personality,
there are other parts of your personality. No one is "one-dimensional." Even
how you word your question shows me that you have a caring, sensitive
side.
While you may be known for your sense of humor, I'm sure that the
students who know you best, know that you are more than just "funny".
I think that you have to make an intentional decision that you are going
to act in appropriate ways - whatever the situation calls for. For instance,
you may be tempted to say something funny when a student shares a problem
with you. Think before you speak. Remember that the Bible says, "Do
not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is
helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may
benefit those who listen." Ephesians 4:29.
http://www.simplyyouthministry.com/community-articles-jim-s-thoughts.html
jim burns
how can i be myself, funny, and at the same time counsel young people without hurting my friends, my youth, my walk with the lord, and the youth ministry, whom I work with?
It is important to be authentic - to be yourself - when working
with students. Students have an uncanny ability to see through someone
who
is putting on an act.
This being said, there are times when it is appropriate to be funny
and times when it is inappropriate. In the Bible, the book of Ecclesiastes,
Chapter 3, we find that Solomon wrote about there being appropriate
times
for everything... "A time to cry and a time to laugh. A time
to mourn and a time to dance..."
I'm sure that in addition to the naturally funny side of your personality,
there are other parts of your personality. No one is "one-dimensional." Even
how you word your question shows me that you have a caring, sensitive
side.
While you may be known for your sense of humor, I'm sure that the
students who know you best, know that you are more than just "funny".
I think that you have to make an intentional decision that you are going
to act in appropriate ways - whatever the situation calls for. For instance,
you may be tempted to say something funny when a student shares a problem
with you. Think before you speak. Remember that the Bible says, "Do
not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is
helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may
benefit those who listen." Ephesians 4:29. |
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