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    lesson learned - be real
brent carl
I remember the first time I took my youth group to Adventure Camp in West Virginia. It was a miracle that we were even allowed to go in the first place, especially after the parents meeting I had when I had to explain and convince them that it was going to be all right to take their kids rafting, rappelling, and mountain biking for a week in the New River Gorge. I think it was probably the “Assumption of Risk” form they had to sign that made them a little edgy. The form basically said, “All of the activities at Adventure Camp have an element of risk involved. You are assuming the risk for your child . . . If they get hurt or die you are releasing the camp, and won’t sue!” Yeah, that was an interesting meeting.
But the bottom line was that I knew that if we could get our kids out of their comfort zones and challenge them with some things they would probably never get to do, we would start to see some qualities like, faith, teamwork, unity, and trust begin to emerge.
We loaded up the van and headed south to wild, wonderful West Virginia for a week of fun and challenge through extremely risky adventures.
Everything was going great. We were ready to tackle our first challenge of the week, whitewater rafting the class 3-5 rapids of the lower New River. We got our lifejackets, oars, and helmets and proceeded to the waiting area where the guides were assembled to go over the rules and expectations for the day. We were really excited and full of anticipation; there were smiles galore, as we thought about how awesome this day was going to be.
Excitement abounded, that is until the head guide stepped to the front and for the next 30 minutes explained to us how risky this adventure really was. He didn’t pull any punches. He had kind of a low, monotone voice that would get louder and louder until he would come to his crescendo, which was also the main point he wanted to deliver to us. It went something like this…
“Ladies and gentleman it is my job to inform you of the inherent risks, and dare I say DANGERS of what we are about to partake of today. Rafting may look like a fun sport to the novice, and fun it is, but I would be remiss if I didn’t point out the crucial elements that you need to abide by if you want to come back from this trip ALIVE!”
I sat in the back of the group, and when he proclaimed that little gem, every single one of my leaders and students swiveled their heads in my direction and glared the most hideously evil glare I have ever seen in my life. Without words they were saying to me “Pastor Brent, what have you done? Have you brought us out of our land of comfort to die here in this gorge? Dude, when we get back—if we get back—you are SO FIRED!”
I admit I was a little concerned as well, especially when the guide continued his explanation of each of the pieces of equipment that would hopefully keep us alive on the trip. Here’s basically what he said:
“Okay, if you want to come back alive and actually enjoy this day, and experience the incredible things we’re going to experience, here’s what you need to know about your equipment. See this yellow plastic hat? It’s called a helmet, it belongs on your head at all times, it is a very important device because if . . . I mean when you get flipped out of the raft today and your head hits a rock . . . if you don’t have your helmet on (insert crescendo) YOU’RE GONNA DIE!”
“See this oar? This oar is a very important tool, it will help direct you and your fellow raft mates through very treacherous waters today . . . if . . . I mean when it gets stuck under a rock, it will act like a catapult and send you flying across the river, usually headlong into a rock, which if you don’t have your helmet on and firmly fastened (insert crescendo) YOU’RE GONNA DIE!”
“See this beautifully adorned floatation device? It’s called a life jacket . . . key word, LIFE! If . . . I mean when you get tossed, chucked, launched, and or catapulted out of the raft, and fly headlong across the river and hit a rock, you may have a temporary reprieve since you were wearing your helmet, but if you don’t have your life jacket on and securely fastened, you’re going to find yourself swimming with the fishes and (insert crescendo) YOU’RE GONNA DIE!”
At this point, those evil looks that my group was giving me had turned into some serious laser-guided, death glares complete with a few hand motions of clenched fists being shaken in my general direction.
What had I done? Why did I bring my group on this adventure experience only to be known as the youth pastor who went to camp with 20 kids and returned with maybe half of them? Why couldn’t we have just gone to “Kumbaya Camp” like every one else? I felt so bad, until the guide began his monotone caveat to his previous truth filled monologue of death.
Here’s what he said, and I am so glad he added this next part, not only because it relieved some of the pressure from me, but it became the theme for our week—and for many of our kids, for the rest of their lives. He said:
”You know guys, life isn’t easy, in fact it’s downright dangerous, and too many times in life people set out without knowing the real deal. Today I want you to know the real deal. But you know what? If I stopped here and didn’t tell you the rest of the story, what a message of doom that would be. You know God is that way as well. He wants us to know that there are dangers out there. The devil is sneaking around ready to pounce, but if we follow Jesus’ way and obey His commands for our lives, we will experience life in a way that others can only dream about. Today on this rafting trip, I want you to obey the rules, keep alert, trust your equipment, and, more than anything, follow the guide! You see if you follow the guide, you will not only come back alive, you will experience (insert crescendo) THE RUSH OF YOUR LIFE!
“The Christian life is that way as well, if you keep your eyes on the Guide (Jesus), He will lead you through tough, choppy, class 5, 6, and 7 waters. And even though you may not understand it at the time, you will look back on it and realize that He knew what He was doing all along, and was right there with you in your boat. That’s the real deal! Now who wants to go rafting?” (Insert mass applause from the crowd.)
What an incredible day we had. Each adventure was introduced in a similar way, and each adventure taught us in vivid fashion what things like, faith, trials, pain, hardship, trust, and salvation are all about.
The guides spoke to us in “real” way, and my group responded. In fact, they responded so much that for the last 12 years or so, we take a group every year to experience the life-changing adventure that events like rafting and rappelling afford to those who are willing to obey and follow the lead of the guide.
It’s so crucial for us to speak the truth in love, even when it’s hard. And it’s just as crucial to talk about how incredible God’s plan really is.
Remember, ”If you follow the guide, you will not only come back alive, you will experience (Insert Crescendo) THE RUSH OF YOUR LIFE!”
Lesson learned.
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brent carl
I remember the first time I took my youth group to Adventure Camp in West Virginia. It was a miracle that we were even allowed to go in the first place, especially after the parents meeting I had when I had to explain and convince them that it was going to be all right to take their kids rafting, rappelling, and mountain biking for a week in the New River Gorge. I think it was probably the “Assumption of Risk” form they had to sign that made them a little edgy. The form basically said, “All of the activities at Adventure Camp have an element of risk involved. You are assuming the risk for your child . . . If they get hurt or die you are releasing the camp, and won’t sue!” Yeah, that was an interesting meeting.
But the bottom line was that I knew that if we could get our kids out of their comfort zones and challenge them with some things they would probably never get to do, we would start to see some qualities like, faith, teamwork, unity, and trust begin to emerge.
We loaded up the van and headed south to wild, wonderful West Virginia for a week of fun and challenge through extremely risky adventures.
Everything was going great. We were ready to tackle our first challenge of the week, whitewater rafting the class 3-5 rapids of the lower New River. We got our lifejackets, oars, and helmets and proceeded to the waiting area where the guides were assembled to go over the rules and expectations for the day. We were really excited and full of anticipation; there were smiles galore, as we thought about how awesome this day was going to be.
Excitement abounded, that is until the head guide stepped to the front and for the next 30 minutes explained to us how risky this adventure really was. He didn’t pull any punches. He had kind of a low, monotone voice that would get louder and louder until he would come to his crescendo, which was also the main point he wanted to deliver to us. It went something like this…
“Ladies and gentleman it is my job to inform you of the inherent risks, and dare I say DANGERS of what we are about to partake of today. Rafting may look like a fun sport to the novice, and fun it is, but I would be remiss if I didn’t point out the crucial elements that you need to abide by if you want to come back from this trip ALIVE!”
I sat in the back of the group, and when he proclaimed that little gem, every single one of my leaders and students swiveled their heads in my direction and glared the most hideously evil glare I have ever seen in my life. Without words they were saying to me “Pastor Brent, what have you done? Have you brought us out of our land of comfort to die here in this gorge? Dude, when we get back—if we get back—you are SO FIRED!”
I admit I was a little concerned as well, especially when the guide continued his explanation of each of the pieces of equipment that would hopefully keep us alive on the trip. Here’s basically what he said:
“Okay, if you want to come back alive and actually enjoy this day, and experience the incredible things we’re going to experience, here’s what you need to know about your equipment. See this yellow plastic hat? It’s called a helmet, it belongs on your head at all times, it is a very important device because if . . . I mean when you get flipped out of the raft today and your head hits a rock . . . if you don’t have your helmet on (insert crescendo) YOU’RE GONNA DIE!”
“See this oar? This oar is a very important tool, it will help direct you and your fellow raft mates through very treacherous waters today . . . if . . . I mean when it gets stuck under a rock, it will act like a catapult and send you flying across the river, usually headlong into a rock, which if you don’t have your helmet on and firmly fastened (insert crescendo) YOU’RE GONNA DIE!”
“See this beautifully adorned floatation device? It’s called a life jacket . . . key word, LIFE! If . . . I mean when you get tossed, chucked, launched, and or catapulted out of the raft, and fly headlong across the river and hit a rock, you may have a temporary reprieve since you were wearing your helmet, but if you don’t have your life jacket on and securely fastened, you’re going to find yourself swimming with the fishes and (insert crescendo) YOU’RE GONNA DIE!”
At this point, those evil looks that my group was giving me had turned into some serious laser-guided, death glares complete with a few hand motions of clenched fists being shaken in my general direction.
What had I done? Why did I bring my group on this adventure experience only to be known as the youth pastor who went to camp with 20 kids and returned with maybe half of them? Why couldn’t we have just gone to “Kumbaya Camp” like every one else? I felt so bad, until the guide began his monotone caveat to his previous truth filled monologue of death.
Here’s what he said, and I am so glad he added this next part, not only because it relieved some of the pressure from me, but it became the theme for our week—and for many of our kids, for the rest of their lives. He said:
”You know guys, life isn’t easy, in fact it’s downright dangerous, and too many times in life people set out without knowing the real deal. Today I want you to know the real deal. But you know what? If I stopped here and didn’t tell you the rest of the story, what a message of doom that would be. You know God is that way as well. He wants us to know that there are dangers out there. The devil is sneaking around ready to pounce, but if we follow Jesus’ way and obey His commands for our lives, we will experience life in a way that others can only dream about. Today on this rafting trip, I want you to obey the rules, keep alert, trust your equipment, and, more than anything, follow the guide! You see if you follow the guide, you will not only come back alive, you will experience (insert crescendo) THE RUSH OF YOUR LIFE!
“The Christian life is that way as well, if you keep your eyes on the Guide (Jesus), He will lead you through tough, choppy, class 5, 6, and 7 waters. And even though you may not understand it at the time, you will look back on it and realize that He knew what He was doing all along, and was right there with you in your boat. That’s the real deal! Now who wants to go rafting?” (Insert mass applause from the crowd.)
What an incredible day we had. Each adventure was introduced in a similar way, and each adventure taught us in vivid fashion what things like, faith, trials, pain, hardship, trust, and salvation are all about.
The guides spoke to us in “real” way, and my group responded. In fact, they responded so much that for the last 12 years or so, we take a group every year to experience the life-changing adventure that events like rafting and rappelling afford to those who are willing to obey and follow the lead of the guide.
It’s so crucial for us to speak the truth in love, even when it’s hard. And it’s just as crucial to talk about how incredible God’s plan really is.
Remember, ”If you follow the guide, you will not only come back alive, you will experience (Insert Crescendo) THE RUSH OF YOUR LIFE!”
Lesson learned.
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